Sunday, October 7, 2012

new girl & the american girl.

4th grade has been challenging socially for Audrey and we're only a month in to the school year. Classes are small, girls are few, and there is a brand new girl who struggles with how she interacts with others. 

Because Audrey is missing her friends in the other 4th grade class (terribly so), the teacher put her in charge of tending to "the new girl" thinking it may help them both. At first this situation was a bit of a bust. No filter, a bit of sass, and personal space issues made things uncomfortable for Audrey.

So we spent a lot of time talking about how this child might feel in a new setting (alone, worried, awkward) and about how she was being raised by a great aunt (no parents in the picture) and how her sister was unable to attend our school (she has special needs and our school is too small to offer these types of services). 

Audrey's mind began to understand. 

Days later she came home with a card that read, "Dear Audrey, You are so kind I would give you a thousand pieces of paper and you would say, 'Thank You. So Nice'."

That same day Audrey told me how the little miss was "staring and staring" at her for quite some time  (apparently she does this a lot to her) and then she broke in to a big smile and remarked, "That's It! You look just like Emily, the American Girl doll. She's beautiful. And sweet. Just like you."

Audrey's heart began to swell.




1 comments:

Amparo said...

Sweet story! Loved it! Thanks for sharing that!!! Sometimes putting yourself out there, being vulnerable even at time where you are not at your strongest are the golden opportunities to see what you are truly blessed at in life. Audrey is too sweet.